EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
“Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” Stephen Covey,
slow down and REFLECT
on the MEANING and the MESSAGE of today’s quotation
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IN YOUR OWN WORDS… what is the main idea or theme that is expressed in the above quote?
“If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.” (Albert Einstein)
PERSONALIZE….
Do you have any personal experiences or observations that relate to the meaning of this quote? If so, describe a specific example.
“There are many truths of which the full meaning cannot be realized until personal experience has brought it home.” (John Stuart Mill)
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Interested in seeing what artificial intelligence (ai) has to say about the meaning of today’s quotation? Compare it to your own interpretation. You may be fascinated, or even possibly humbled.
“Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” Stephen Covey,
Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” — Stephen Covey
This powerful line comes from Covey’s book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, where it is Habit 5.
What it means:
- Listen with the intent to truly grasp the other person’s feelings, perspective, and reasoning.
- Do not listen just to prepare your reply.
- Put aside your assumptions, your need to be right, and your desire to fix or correct.
Covey calls this empathetic listening. When people feel genuinely understood, they become more open, calmer, and more willing to hear your point of view in return.
It is a principle that applies everywhere:
- In marriages and families
- Between parents and children
- In friendships
- In the workplace
Often, conflict continues not because of disagreement, but because each person feels unheard.” (chatGPT, (03/03/26)
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