Mature Love

“Immature love says ‘I love you because I need you.’ Mature love says, ‘I need you because I love you.’ “ Erich Fromm

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slow down and REFLECT

on the MEANING and the MESSAGE of today’s quotation

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“Immature love says ‘I love you because I need you.’ Mature love says, ‘I need you because I love you.’ “ Erich Fromm

In your own words, what is the central message of the above quote by the German-American social psychologist Erich Fromm?

“If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.” (Albert Einstein)

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Getting Personal

Have any people, including yourself, in your own life exemplified the practice of mature love? If so, who, and why would you describe them as having demonstrated mature love?

If not in your own life, then who outside of your personal life do you consider exemplars of mature love?

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INSIGHTS for SUCCESS

Mature love is an important idea for success in life. Money can’t buy it, and it’s value as an intangible expression of success in life is often underappreciated.

“Maturity is when you live your life by your commitments, not by your feelings.” (Rick Warren)

“Mature love is composed and sustaining; a celebration of commitment, companionship, and trust.” (H. Jackson Brown, Jr.)

“How do you spell love?… when you reach the point where the happiness, security and development of another person is as much of a driving force to you as your own happiness, security, and development, then you have a mature love. True love is spelled G-I-V-E. It is not based on what you can get, but rooted in what you can give to the other person.” (Josh McDowell)

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Interested in seeing what artificial intelligence (AI) has to say about the meaning of today’s quotation? Compare it to your own interpretation. You may be fascinated, or even possibly humbled. Check it out by just clicking below:

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IMAGE OF THE DAY

Mature or Immature? (dreamstime.com)

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By Gary and Esther Berkley

Gary and Esther Berkley are the authors of "Whatever You Become, Become Your Best - The College and Graduate Guide to Wisdom for Success in Life." Check it out at www.amazon.com/dp/B09593L5FT

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