Everyone, at one time or another in life, suffers; but not everyone reacts to their suffering in the same way.
Some are more adept at enduring and overcoming their sufferings than others, and there is a strong component of positivity and willpower in that ability.
While you can never completely avoid suffering, you CAN constructively lessen the extent of its negative influence over you.
“Pain is inevitable; suffering is optional.” Unknown
“You either get bitter or you get better. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you.” Josh Shipp
”No matter how far life pushes you down, no matter how much you hurt, you can always bounce back.” Sheryl Swoopes
Getting Personal
What is a good example of preventing the birds of sorrow from building a nest in your hair?
….Top of post image: “Bird Nest,” by Landon Martin, from unsplash.com